tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2472400923228993687.post3841500134590050971..comments2024-03-26T16:19:11.382-07:00Comments on Crossdreamers: Transgender life stories: Bert and BeaSally Molayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02015510914816971645noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2472400923228993687.post-52697616727908157762012-07-03T17:32:09.247-07:002012-07-03T17:32:09.247-07:00We all have dreams and its all up to us how to mak...We all have dreams and its all up to us how to make it a reality. I cam across to this site <a href="http://myladyboygirlfriend.com/mariage-with-transsexual-woman-ladyboy" title="getting married with a ladyboy" rel="nofollow">getting married with a ladyboy</a> which is one of my dream.Annehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08107033522984675166noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2472400923228993687.post-72301564493271165932010-11-02T00:36:20.105-07:002010-11-02T00:36:20.105-07:00Jamie: "I have fallen in love with many women...Jamie: "I have fallen in love with many women. That's never the problem. Wanting to have sex with them is. On the other hand, I have no trouble having sex with guys, but could NEVER fall in love with one."<br /><br />It seems we have to decouple sexual attraction from romantic/aesthetic attraction to make sense out of this. That is: the terms androphilic, gynephilic, homosexual or heterosexual do not really capture what this is about. Nor does the word bisexual, it seems.Jack Molayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03629363646482611722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2472400923228993687.post-77676507897907609812010-11-01T12:28:34.440-07:002010-11-01T12:28:34.440-07:00I have had a sort of similar experience with women...I have had a sort of similar experience with women. I know from inside that I seriously like women far more than any masculine male can love a woman, because well, I simply love everything about women, to the point of sometimes wishing I was one, though I am simply a emp feminine male rather than a crossdresser.<br />But,the reason I am afraid is that even if I feel love for women, I don't get sexual arousal often. I find sex to be something redundant herem rather some burden.<br />But on the other hand, even if I am not at all attracted to men, I find taking love and affection from a male through sex very hot and kinky. I sometimes feel I am using men as emotional objects but it seems my brain is wired in this way I can't get rid of. I seem to like women from my side, but at the same time, it is hihgly kinky to have receptive sex with males (albeit for simply emotional reasons).<br />Bisexuality is indeed highly confusing.Mankarnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2472400923228993687.post-58281099613332498382010-10-31T09:12:29.700-07:002010-10-31T09:12:29.700-07:00I agree with Jamie regarding proper presentation e...I agree with Jamie regarding proper presentation early in the relationship...<br /><br />Here's a couple observations:<br /><br />I think the less "femme" a woman is, the more she will accept her man wanting to be the femme. Now this doesn't mean a butch either...far from it...but just a heterosexual woman who doesn't place a lot of value the feminine symbols & filigree such as makeup and fashion<br /><br />Also, her not having a background with feminism or lesbians would be helpful too. If she has been around one of those two camps, then it will be really difficult for her to conceive of you as anything but "Man Lite" at best -- not a full on man but not a woman either... <br /><br />Go Google lesbian feminist transphobia if you think I don't know what I'm talking about...Bitterness Barbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15080082175885943270noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2472400923228993687.post-6044443915985409612010-10-29T16:49:21.320-07:002010-10-29T16:49:21.320-07:00Just when I start thinking I understand myself, th...Just when I start thinking I understand myself, through things you post here, you post something like this and I get all confused again.<br /><br />I have fallen in love with many women. That's never the problem. Wanting to have sex with them is. On the other hand, I have no trouble having sex with guys, but could NEVER fall in love with one.<br /><br />As for women accepting: I have never had a girlfriend who had a problem with it, and quite a few that seemed to enjoy it, as long as it was presented in a proper, honest way, early in the relationship.Bunnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12533555060918801821noreply@blogger.com