tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2472400923228993687.post6538157895521309161..comments2024-03-26T16:19:11.382-07:00Comments on Crossdreamers: A young transgender teenager asks for adviceSally Molayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02015510914816971645noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2472400923228993687.post-83161722383642041472012-09-06T00:31:38.605-07:002012-09-06T00:31:38.605-07:00Thank you! I am glad I found your site as well!
...Thank you! I am glad I found your site as well!<br /><br />Jack Molayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03629363646482611722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2472400923228993687.post-79266548200490147962012-09-05T17:15:21.629-07:002012-09-05T17:15:21.629-07:00Jack your site has much insightful and interesting...Jack your site has much insightful and interesting analysis. I would even say it's awesome! Joannajoanna Santoshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16722222181799879120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2472400923228993687.post-844272723692826082012-08-20T00:02:18.307-07:002012-08-20T00:02:18.307-07:00@Sean
Actually, infantilist fantasies are quite c...@Sean<br /><br />Actually, infantilist fantasies are quite common among men and women who are under a tremendous emotional stress. <br /><br />In psychology it is often called a regression, in this case to a period of life where someone else took care of you and made you feel safe and loved. <br /><br />Jung meant regressions could be a healthy reaction. The psyche retracts into a safe cave so to speak and tries to heal itself. If it succeeds in this, it will later come out again and face the world. At that point the regression fantasies subsides.<br /><br />It is fascinating to see how men and women in love relationships make use of "regression techniques" all the time, calling each other "baby", feeding each other, comforting each other, in short: treating each other as babies. There is nothing wrong in this either.<br /><br />But if the regression fantasies come to dominate your life in such a way that you find them disturbing, or if you are not able to move on with your life, it will make sense to find a therapist to talk to about this.Jack Molayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03629363646482611722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2472400923228993687.post-18384970441939481002012-08-18T21:15:52.783-07:002012-08-18T21:15:52.783-07:00This is a very interesting comment and it is a ver...This is a very interesting comment and it is a very hard thing to deal with. I find it interesting that we seem to be so close to women and i think that it give us an advantage over other people. The question is how we are able to turn that into a deeper relationship while at the same time have a friendly relationship. I have only told one other person my sister ( my twin) and i do plan to tell my parents at some point soon. And i can tell you that even though i am quite sure they will understand it is quite hard to do. <br />And i find my crossdreaming much more comfortable than the infantalist fantasies that i have.I have though about bring it up on the forum to see what other people have to say about it. Seanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00588988093902952778noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2472400923228993687.post-78387099723868408562012-08-12T07:45:52.324-07:002012-08-12T07:45:52.324-07:00More info on the movie here:
http://www.imdb.com/...More info on the movie here:<br /><br />http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1650048/<br /><br />Trailer here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rwDzRzqFaIEJack Molayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03629363646482611722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2472400923228993687.post-37381135757217790202012-08-10T19:56:19.189-07:002012-08-10T19:56:19.189-07:00Did yo usee the movie from Canada " Laurence ...Did yo usee the movie from Canada " Laurence anyways" ?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2472400923228993687.post-59602588175558584382012-08-07T18:35:43.781-07:002012-08-07T18:35:43.781-07:00Hello R,
My name is Mary and I am the partner of ...Hello R,<br /> My name is Mary and I am the partner of someone similar to yourself. I read your story, twice, and I want to let you know that you have been heard. Its a suprising story to some people and a real story to others. I am one of the others. My feelings are as follows. I agree with Jack. He gives sound advice and for one as young as yourself it must, in some ways, be a lonely life. Not everyone is going through what you are and finding someone who can say, 'hey, that's me too!' does not happen as much as you may want or need right now. You are not alone and as Jack says you will find it hard going sometimes but please be aware there is a lot of easy times too. I am no expert and we all have our own way of living and dealing with what comes our way or what we were born with and you sound like you are smart enough to deal with this now and as you live your life. I think having friends to talk with and make you feel safe is a great idea and tells me you are sensible and grounded. Thanks for writing. Oh, a bit of fun advice - Go easy on the heels, they can be murder! MaryMarynoreply@blogger.com