tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2472400923228993687.post7650502163910327965..comments2024-03-26T16:19:11.382-07:00Comments on Crossdreamers: Read the comments!Sally Molayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02015510914816971645noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2472400923228993687.post-22922275427642477412015-01-19T18:20:03.125-08:002015-01-19T18:20:03.125-08:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.andrea chiuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04035532519352427999noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2472400923228993687.post-18245338731028623752009-09-18T10:31:35.632-07:002009-09-18T10:31:35.632-07:00Thank you very much for a great comment!
(And you...Thank you very much for a great comment!<br /><br />(And your English seems perfect to me! But then again: English is my second language, as well. I am from Scandinavia).<br /><br />What I find liberating from your comment, as well as the ones from others, is that you feel so calm about it all. <br /><br />I also find comfort in the fact that you and others manage so well to combine your life with your "inner woman" with your life as a man.<br /><br />I know for a fact that for others the inner woman becomes so strong, that that is not possible.Jack Molayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03629363646482611722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2472400923228993687.post-75836769415755288452009-09-17T17:50:21.708-07:002009-09-17T17:50:21.708-07:00Hi there, I've been following your blog for qu...Hi there, I've been following your blog for quite a while now so i think i should write at least something.<br />I consider myself as an autogynephiliac too, and despite i've discovered the term only a month ago, I’ve been aware of my situation since i'm 9 years old i think, just by the time i started developing physically and sexually (i think we all have that in common).<br />Despite this situation I’m 100% heterosexual, i love women, more than that actually, i admire them, and in my opinion that has something to do with all this, i love them so much that being like them, or at least knowing how it feels to be like them is what makes me have this fantasies.<br />Actually, that's how all started. <br />During my childhood i went crazy about a girl that went to my same school, I couldn’t think in anything but her.<br />The thing is that she was also my best friend, we were very close to each other and as i didn't want to spoil the friendship i never said anything to her.<br />Well as i went to a private school, and my father had recently lost his job i had to move to a public one, and i didn't see her again until a few years ago.<br />During that time is when i started masturbating, and from the beginning, my fantasy was being her, having her body, even though i was still crazy about her, and wanted her to be my girlfriend.<br />That lasted a few years, then my fantasies moved to other women, but always the same background (me having their body).<br />I'm 18 now, about to turn 19, and i don't feel ashamed about all this, although this is the first time i say something about it.<br />It has never interfered in my everyday life, when i talk to a woman or as i walk through the street and I see a girl with a good body, i have the same thoughts every guy has, i love to be around them, just spending time with them makes me feel great.<br />The autogynephilia issue only comes to sexual terms.<br />This has never been a big issue for me, I’ve always tried to take it as a part of me, to accept that maybe my feminine side is overdeveloped, but that that can't prevent me for having a normal (or even better!) love and sexual life.<br />I also agree with a previous post of yours when you say that this has to have a biological basis. If only a research about this would be made, many of our questions would be answered.<br /><br />Well to finish this, i can say that is great to find people that have the same questions as me, and in the other point of the map! (I'm from Argentina).<br />From my way of seeing this, my only goal is to make this situation in some way helpful, or at least find the good side, because I can't change it, i can't make "her" go and i don't know if i would want to, "she" is a part of me, and finding a way for "us" to live both together in my mind, and maybe take some kind of advantage from all this is what i look for (even though i still don't know how).<br /><br />Thank you for your blog and I hope I could make my self understood (this is not my original language).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com