tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2472400923228993687.post2325349504396976099..comments2024-03-26T16:19:11.382-07:00Comments on Crossdreamers: On crossdreamers and the role of transgender pornography part 1Sally Molayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02015510914816971645noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2472400923228993687.post-65258959811865438272012-03-26T14:11:02.097-07:002012-03-26T14:11:02.097-07:00Hey, it's just a penis..push it outta the way ...Hey, it's just a penis..push it outta the way :)<br /><br />Seriously but..each to their own I say. I do not believe a man IS gay 'cos he likes females with male parts or whatever. I do not buy into the idea that we are all confined to one sexual identity, why not leap outside of it once in awhile. t the end of every day we are all human beings..the problem is how we have been shaped and led to believe in by differant influences i.e the religions and good ole wholesome uncle sam.<br /><br />I say DREAM ON all you weird n wonderful cross dreamers!<br /><br />My own personal feelings - dont like a big hairy dude who looks like me kissin me n gropin my bits..not my cup of tea. Have been there,tried it. Did not much like it at all. Horrible experience. I am very sure I am not a homosexual, although I did think I may have been..Im cured :) <br /><br />Pehaps not..I 2 am guilty of being very turned on by the more feminine of people who didnt start out that way. I mean whats that all about? <br /><br />It's all about taboo if you ask me..<br />your not suppose to put your little man in that..thats what we were all told when we were kids..thats disgusting.<br />God said you only can use it on a woman in the hole at the front. Ya cant look at it unless your makin a baby!<br />The rest of the time your suppose to take cold showers and rub yourself against a chair. I think not. I think if it has hair on it then a man, being a man will just try put his penis in it.<br />It's not really that complex an issue if you ask me. It's just the way men are put together. We are deviants made in the image of our father,<br /><br />Id say he probably aint even real, so lets all just have a good time.<br />And if that means you give/receive (consensual) sodomy or lie with a man cos ya took 2 much drugs or you just felt like it then hey! <br /><br />Just be safe and responsible about your health and your family.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2472400923228993687.post-90878983836995445982010-09-10T00:21:27.659-07:002010-09-10T00:21:27.659-07:00To the previous comment:
I do not think all men w...To the previous comment:<br /><br />I do not think all men who fantasize about anal penetration are gay. My point is that the M2F crossdreamers with feminization fantasies may have a female copulation institinct -- they want to be the catcher istead of the pitcher -- while at the same time being attracted to women.<br /><br />They are not gay, and sexual orientation wise they are gynephilic (heterosexual).Jack Molayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03629363646482611722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2472400923228993687.post-12895883416515402432010-09-10T00:18:17.873-07:002010-09-10T00:18:17.873-07:00THIS COMMENT WAS ACCIDENTALY NOT PUBLISHED BY BLOG...THIS COMMENT WAS ACCIDENTALY NOT PUBLISHED BY BLOGGER<br /><br />I take the chance of publishing this anonymous comment directly:<br /><br /><br />Anonymous has left a new comment on your post "On autogynephilia and the role of shemale fantasie...": <br /><br />I think your buying into the common mistake about men who like to be penetrated or like penises. The mistake is that they must just be gay men who are too afraid/unaware to come out of the closet. We don't say this about women (that there are only straight and gay women) in large part because the cost of being interested in the same sex is so much lower for them. A man who comes out to liking both, who starts up with men, might as well just lead a gay life at that point, as that is what he'll be treated as anyway.<br /><br />It is easy to lie to oneself, and many gay folks do for a period of their lives. But if you are a male and you are bi, or even just like a penis or to be penetrated, why would you ever come out? No one will believe you, you have just managed to alienate the whole dating pool. Look at what happens to a man who like anal sex (from the top mind you), they are often accused of acting gay.<br /><br />Overlooking the cost of what even a hint of 'gayness' can do to a man, and how that effects their behavior and beliefs and desires is a mistake. Man react to even a hint of being accused of being gay with violence in part because the cost is so high. A woman who has some same sex attractions or who likes activities associated with men has altered her market, but in general loses little or no stock in the eyes of the public.<br /><br />Just saying a person will convince themselves of what they need to, to get the satisfaction they need in a way that threatens them least. This will effect how trans women view men, how gay men view bi men and whether as a man who likes a penis (easy to work with genitalia and/or likes to be penetrated) will come view himself. Especially if that same man also likes more traditional women.<br /><br />Sorry this is not well written, but I want to get it out there before we move too far on.<br /><br />Bullet points -<br />don't assume closeted gay<br /><br />the cost of being (or rumored to be) gay is high enough that a man either jumps fully into gay life or tries very hard to be 100% straight.<br /><br />The rate of reported alternative sexual orientations to gay or straight is likely under reported because of the lack of a successful template for male attractions outside of the binary.<br /><br />Trans women have to deal with the same issues as a male before they grow into their identity, meaning in part they will have many of the same prejudices toward their own (and others) desires behaviors that a man would in relation to maintaining stock in society.<br /><br />S...Jack Molayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03629363646482611722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2472400923228993687.post-63328283783331278912010-09-06T05:05:13.887-07:002010-09-06T05:05:13.887-07:00Somehow a post from "Anonymous" has disa...Somehow a post from "Anonymous" has disappeared. If this was not deleted on purpose, please let me know, and I'll put it up for you.<br /><br />It started with the following sentence.<br /><br />"I think your buying into the common mistake about men who like to be penetrated or like penises. The mistake is that they must just be gay men who are too afraid/unaware to come out of the closet. "Jack Molayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03629363646482611722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2472400923228993687.post-85733146410499739272010-09-04T14:20:08.571-07:002010-09-04T14:20:08.571-07:00I think your buying into the common mistake about ...I think your buying into the common mistake about men who like to be penetrated or like penises. The mistake is that they must just be gay men who are too afraid/unaware to come out of the closet. We don't say this about women (that there are only straight and gay women) in large part because the cost of being interested in the same sex is so much lower for them. A man who comes out to liking both, who starts up with men, might as well just lead a gay life at that point, as that is what he'll be treated as anyway.<br /><br />It is easy to lie to oneself, and many gay folks do for a period of their lives. But if you are a male and you are bi, or even just like a penis or to be penetrated, why would you ever come out? No one will believe you, you have just managed to alienate the whole dating pool. Look at what happens to a man who like anal sex (from the top mind you), they are often accused of acting gay.<br /><br />Overlooking the cost of what even a hint of 'gayness' can do to a man, and how that effects their behavior and beliefs and desires is a mistake. Man react to even a hint of being accused of being gay with violence in part because the cost is so high. A woman who has some same sex attractions or who likes activities associated with men has altered her market, but in general loses little or no stock in the eyes of the public.<br /><br />Just saying a person will convince themselves of what they need to, to get the satisfaction they need in a way that threatens them least. This will effect how trans women view men, how gay men view bi men and whether as a man who likes a penis (easy to work with genitalia and/or likes to be penetrated) will come view himself. Especially if that same man also likes more traditional women.<br /><br />Sorry this is not well written, but I want to get it out there before we move too far on.<br /><br />Bullet points -<br />don't assume closeted gay<br /><br />the cost of being (or rumored to be) gay is high enough that a man either jumps fully into gay life or tries very hard to be 100% straight.<br /><br />The rate of reported alternative sexual orientations to gay or straight is likely under reported because of the lack of a successful template for male attractions outside of the binary.<br /><br />Trans women have to deal with the same issues as a male before they grow into their identity, meaning in part they will have many of the same prejudices toward their own (and others) desires behaviors that a man would in relation to maintaining stock in society.<br /><br />SeanAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2472400923228993687.post-13743442643864069712010-08-31T11:24:36.119-07:002010-08-31T11:24:36.119-07:00Jamiegotten,
Some of these men you are referring t...Jamiegotten,<br />Some of these men you are referring to are also bisexual. They might like very feminine looking guys for example<br />but at the same time love penises. The pre-op shemale presents a good combination of this and they like that.<br />Some straight men might also be into this because they just love to be penetrated.Sultananoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2472400923228993687.post-60894135115832076202010-08-30T15:37:01.045-07:002010-08-30T15:37:01.045-07:00I think it might, at first. I'm not talking ab...I think it might, at first. I'm not talking about full-blown gay men, but guys that are still rebelling against the idea that they might be gay. Remember, they're trying to get to penises, WITHOUT admitting to themselves they like men.<br /><br />Seems to me shemales would be perfect for that.<br /><br />Plus a lot of transsexuals will tell you, that a lot of men that date them while they are pre-op, dump them after the op, and later just hook up with guys.Bunnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12533555060918801821noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2472400923228993687.post-47604878677586400692010-08-29T23:53:27.941-07:002010-08-29T23:53:27.941-07:00@Jamiegottagun
That makes sense, but would this ...@Jamiegottagun <br /><br />That makes sense, but would this lead to an interest for shemale porn, as well? If they truly are gay men, would that kind of material really excite them?<br /><br />JackJack Molayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03629363646482611722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2472400923228993687.post-35304812319687833552010-08-28T09:57:08.327-07:002010-08-28T09:57:08.327-07:00You are missing one common element. Many in-the-cl...You are missing one common element. Many in-the-closet gay men begin with transvestites and pre-op transsexuals.<br /><br />They often then move on, eventually, to other gay males.<br /><br />I have always that that they do this because in the beginning they are not comfortable with the fact that they like men/penises, so the penis being attached to a "woman" allows them to feel less guilt about their desires.<br /><br />There probably are a lot of autogynephiliacs in there, too, but unresolved homosexuality plays a big role in it too, since for many of these guys the fascination is the penis.Bunnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12533555060918801821noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2472400923228993687.post-87189139869002951202010-08-27T06:22:37.087-07:002010-08-27T06:22:37.087-07:00Very good addition to the blog Jack.
"What c...Very good addition to the blog Jack.<br /><br />"What could make a crossdreamer dream about shemales? "<br /><br />For me it was about being able to have the fantasy by proxy through someone else. A beautiful shemale is enacting out the fantasy so desired by the crossdreamer. The crossdreamer desires the physical feminisation that the shemale is going through. The intact male member on the shemale serves as a reminder that the shemale was born male but can appear in society as an attractive woman. Something the crossdreamer would love to experience themselves.<br /><br />I was personally very attracted to pre-op photos in TS porn, although now I'm not. I'm more attracted by the sight of post-op transsexuals. I can only presume that this is because the feminisation has been taken to its logical conclusion.Cheryl Sussexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02512809610979507630noreply@blogger.com