June 7, 2011

Gender Reloaded 4: The Sexual Orientation Model

My discussion on an alternative view of gender and sex continues. In this post I will focus on the model that shaped the autogynephilia theory.

There was one big problem with the biological sex model. It was created within a society that valued a scientific discourse within a democratic culture. As long as the social mores fit with the theory, science could be used to suppress women, blacks and homosexuals. But as soon as the democratic process liberated one group after the other, it became abundantly clear that working class people were not stupid, that women could become excellent scientists, that Irishmen and black people could (in the end) become presidents and that homosexuals could marry and establish loving  families.

And scientists who were convinced that this were so, used their power and their influence to demask the racists and the sexists. But in some cases the scientist were forced to stop labelling groups as sick perverts, not because they stopped believing this was so, but because it became politically impossible.

In  1973 homosexuality was removed from the American Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders. The old belief system had crashed into the revolution of 1968 and it had to go into hiding in order to survive. It did so by redefining the unit of analysis.

Note that in the biological sex model, what is found between your legs define your natural behavior and your place in the world. Women, that is human beings with vaginas and uteruses are weak, passive etc.etc. And they are also exclusively attracted to males, because males are the only ones who can give them babies. And women are programmed by nature to love babies.

The natural  existence of same-sex relationships could no longer be denied, however. There were too many of them. The two Kinsey Reports on human sexual behavior, Sexual Behavior in the Human Male  from 1948 and Sexual Behavior in the Human Female from 1953, by Dr. Alfred Kinsey, Wardell Pomeroy and others, had shown that even white Anglo-Saxon Americans did not do what they preached. Women were horny and men had sex with men. Lots of it. Kinsey also found that there were no clear cut boundaries between heterosexuality, bisexuality and homosexuality.

To quote the Wikipedia summary:

“The reports also state that nearly 46% of the male subjects had ‘reacted’ sexually to persons of both sexes in the course of their adult lives, and 37% had at least one homosexual experience. 11.6% of white males (ages 20–35) were given a rating of 3 (about equal heterosexual and homosexual experience/response) throughout their adult lives.The study also reported that 10% of American males surveyed were ‘more or less exclusively homosexual for at least three years between the ages of 16 and 55’ (in the 5 to 6 range).”

(The Kinsey scale goes from 0 Exclusively Heterosexual to 6 Exclusively Homosexual).

Kinsey told the story of variation, not of the great divide between the sexes.

The sexual orientation model

What happened now is very interesting. Most scientists were still stuck in their binary, as were significant parts of the population. In order to solve the problem they redefined the unit of analysis from man vs. woman to masculine vs. feminine. On the one hand you had “normal” women and feminine men and on the other you had “normal” men and masculine women.

The foundation for femininity and masculinity remained biological, but by moving the homosexuals out of the perversion category, the researchers could now redefine homosexual men as “feminine” and homosexual women as “masculine”. Homosexuality remained an evolutionary riddle (how can homosexuality prevail if there is no offspring?), but it seemed possible to retain at least some of the gender stereotypes.

The dominance modelPassive people (unfree women, slaves, young boys and effeminate men)Active people (free men)
The biological sex modelWomen (XX)Men (XY)
The sexual orientation modelPeople exclusively attracted to menPeople exclusively attracted to women

Now the gay men were included in the family of delicate, passive, emotional and submissive women, while the lesbians become hard core butches. This is the world of Ray Blanchard and J. Michael Bailey, the people behind the autogynephilia theory.

In order to uphold this belief system it is very important to define sexual attraction as narrow as possible. Kinsey had shown that 4 out of 10 American men had had same-sex erotic experiences. There is no way you can define 4 out of 10 American men as stereotypically feminine. 
This problem was solved by defining only the men that exclusively loved men as homosexual (Kinsey scale 6 and -- maybe -- 5). To the extent these men looked masculine it was explained as the result of them repressing their true femininity in order to attract other gay men.

Blanchard solves any ambiguity by saying that any man who has ever had intercourse with a woman is not homosexual, and therefore not feminine. Interestingly enough, he does not make the logical step of saying that any man who has ever had intercourse with a man is a homosexual, even if that makes equally much sense methodologically. I guess it would make a mockery of his theory.

Next: On the social construction model of sex and gender.


  1. I think that I kow why Blanchard tells that the only true transexual are men who love men and that men who love women are fatishist =

    It is because of the homophobic and machist way of thinking of the society.

    A man must look like a man and love pussies. A womant must look like a woman and love dicks.

    A man who loves dicks and want to be a woman fits in the heterosexual model. By allowing him the right to look like a woman, we confirm that women look like women and lov dicks.

    A man who becomes a women but loves pussies becomes gay (so a sexual outlaw) and a gender rebel as he shows that sex, gender and sexual life can hove no link.

    The worst beeing the transgender who doesn'nt want to change sex as he challenges the model.

    So men who explain gender non conformity are encouraged to change sex and so are deleted from reality to confirm that the binary sexist system.

  2. This is an interesting post. The issue on sexuality and gender is still present up to this moment. Many are still considering homosexuality as an illness. We are living in the modern world and we should open our mind to this kind of possibilities.


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